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• makes me laugh
• usefully intelligent
• socially capable
• makes me laugh
• can handle occasional silence
• has better taste in food than I do
• knows what he wants to be when he grows up
• has a job he enjoys
• knows how to take time off from work
• makes me laugh
• intelligent conversations
• can talk about emotions/relationships without flinching
• gives good back rubs
• shows an active interest in me (not just my body, either, but clearly likes that, too)
• likes my cat
• fairly healthy, mentally
• fairly healthy, physically
• has interests other than work
• pursues them
• doesn't share my interest in Things (I swear, I'm working on that one.)
  
• cares about his appearance (within reason)
• doesn't need to live in the middle of a five-acre forest to relax
• self-aware (not selfish, or at least, only sometimes)
  
• self-assured (not arrogant)
  
• can laugh at self (not too insecure, please)
  
• can laugh at me (occasionally)
  
• likes my stories
• laughs about the custom cup-holder in my TV
• does not need to be taken care of
• can handle being cared for sometimes anyway
  
• wants a partner/friend, not a mommy/trophy
• okay with corny movies
• okay with only watching the good parts
• been there, done that, has the T-shirt
• wants to do it my way sometimes
• makes his own plans, and invites me along, sometimes

(FYI, I actually did meet a guy like this once. I just don't think he ever asked me out on a date...)